Sue North shared this story with me, then in the interest of not retyping I found it, also, posted on msgboard.snopes.com/ by TrishDaDish
I WISH YOU ENOUGH
Recently,
I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the
airport as the daughter's departure had been announced. Standing near
the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, "I love you and I
wish you enough."
The daughter replied, "Mom, our life together
has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you
enough, too, Mom"
They kissed and the daughter left. The mother
walked over to the window where I sat. Standing there, I could see she
wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she
welcomed me in by asking, "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing
it would be forever?"
"Yes, I have," I replied. "Forgive me for asking but why is this a forever good-bye?"
"I
am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the
reality is the next trip back will be for my funeral," she said.
"When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, "I wish you enough." May I ask what that means?"
She
began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other
generations. My parents used to say it to everyone." She paused a moment
and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even
more. "When we said 'I wish you enough' we were wanting the other
person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain
them". Then turning toward me, she shared the following, reciting it
from memory.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
She then began to cry and walked away.
They
say it takes a minute to find a special person, An hour to appreciate
them, A day to love them, And an entire life to forget them.
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