A Teaching Story from Who Cares? Simple Ways You Can Reach Out by Marcy Heidish
Marcy Heidish has some very savvy insights into service. Here's a story about receiving kindness.
"She stood in a dingy hallway of a shelter and pointed to the
water-stained wall. The light came in thin and gray, slanting across her
cracked glasses. She pushed her dust-colored hair away from her face; a
face curiously childlike for a sixty-year-old woman. On the wall was a
drawing she had done of a clock. The time read 5:07. The drawing was a
good one, and I told her so; she had dated it months before and, oddly
enough, the date happened to be my birthday. As I told her this, her
face seemed illuminated from within. Lifting her chin, she began to sing
in a slow, stately, sacred way — the way a soprano sings the national
anthem, perhaps.
"The song she sang was 'Happy Birthday.' It did not matter that this
was not my birthday. In many ways, it was hers; it was ours. Later, when
I reported this seemingly 'small' event to the nun who ran the shelter,
she nodded, at first as if to herself. 'That's the best reward you
could get,' my wise mentor said. 'She got to give you something. Mostly
the women here, they don't get that chance — the chance to give anything
to anyone. To give someone the chance to give is a gift in itself. Best
kind.' "
To Practice: Rejoice in those times when you have a chance to be a graceful receiver of a gift.
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